Image of a sunflower with the title of Try by Colbie Coillet written on it.

Try. A simple word with powerful meaning. I posted this video back in 2019 by Colbie Caillat, and it left a lasting impact on me. Looking back at that time in my life now I reflect the power of letting go of what no longer served me.  In a beautiful, uncomplicated way, it made me reflect on how often we try to be someone we’re not.

For so long, I have been trying to be someone—someone others would like. I forgot that the most important approval comes from within. I forgot that I need to like myself first, that I only need to please myself. The opinions of others? They are none of my business.

What is important is that we must like ourselves first, then others will too.   We have to be willing to be vulnerable in who we are so others can relate to us.

Simple Change

It’s amazing how freeing it is when you make that shift in mindset. Happiness doesn’t require a dramatic change or a loud declaration. It can be as simple as changing your perspective—choosing to love yourself, just as you are.

So, I encourage you to try. Letting go of the need for external validation. Try embracing who you are, without compromise. Try loving yourself today, and see how much lighter life feels.

Take that leap of faith. You are enough.

 

 

 

Rev. Colleen Irwin
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Triple Capricorn with a cosmic compass, Colleen is a no-nonsense Medium with a mystical flair. She blends psychic precision, heartfelt teaching, and a dash of sass to guide women through the sacred threshold of aging, purpose, and spiritual awakening. Equal parts fire-starter and truth-teller, she helps clients tune into Spirit, confront perfectionism, and rewrite their inner scripts — all while stirring up hope, community, and deep soul alignment. When she's not holding space in circles or speaking on stage, you'll find her journaling, crocheting, or working Tarot like a mirror for the soul. If you like her writing, you can tip her here: https://checkout.square.site/merchant/9RC7V0Z4N80K9/checkout/54W4LZCLYW3AW3N2FJ7KBBFI
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