first anniversary

Author’s note:  June 16, 2018 –
I married my Life Partner – this really does work

A good friend once said unless you define it the Universe cannot give it to you.   I am moving this from my private blog to the public one because it belongs out here for someone to find and give them the framework to create their own.   Have faith, it won’t come the moment you put it out there, but in time you may just be surprised…

Put as much detail in as you can think, but don’t be too specific.   Define how the relationship feels and functions without putting too much emphasis on who that person is.   It may take several tries and revisions.  This is my third one and the one I have committed to.   It is everything that I need and want in a relationship.   I am publishing it at the same time/date that I originally posted it.   I am writing this on January 3, 2018.   I found him recently and shared this with him and it is everything both of us have ever wanted.   In case you are wondering — it does work.


 My ideal Life Partner – Desire Statement

My ideal life partner, is a man who values his family and welcomes me as part of it immediately.  He is successful but that success is defined by him alone.  He recognizes that success has nothing to do with financial means, and everything to do with who you are as a human being.  He is accepting of my struggles and sees me for who I have become, not what I have not achieved.  He is proud of how I have developed and respects me for it.

He is funny and makes me laugh, with a wicked sense of humor.  That sense of humor will get us through any rough moments we may face.  I am able to make him laugh, and we can be silly together.  He is stable, he has known heartbreak. The past for both of us is just that.

Compassion and Empathy are how we will work though any issues we face together. Love and forgiveness is the foundation of our relationship. We both will feel safe and secure with each other.  I will truly love this man unconditionally because that is how he loves me.

This man is not afraid of my psychic abilities, he embraces them as part of who I am.   We will be well matched in our Spirituality.  My life partner will respect the time I need alone to continue to be the greatest support for him as I will do that for him.  He is protective of me and only wants the best for me.  We will make any important decisions together.

He is loved and respected in the community.   He has incredible integrity.  He is patient, confident and self-assured.  He loves what he does professionally, and will be surround by many wonderful and loving people.   He will love those that love me as I will love those that surround him.

The two of us will build a life together and that will include our children.  There is a dog or a cat in our family.  Our children will be happy about our union.   We will be blessed, and we will savor every moment of it, for we have known what it is to not have it.

We will be incredibly attentive to what we each needs romantically.  We will like to touch, hold hands and kiss, but know there is a time and place for it.  We will have an incredibly fulfilling intimate relationship that we have never experienced before. He will have a twinkle in his eyes and his smile will melt my heart.  Just being together we will have moments that we take each other’s breath away.

Together, we will be able to share not only the light but the dark of who we are.  We will bring the best out of each other. Together we will grow and become better professionals, parents and friends to those in our lives.   Our lives will not be perfect, but joy will surround us each and every day.
This man believes in me and my dreams.  We will feel deeply loved and cherished in this relationship. Neither of us will ever feel unappreciated.  My life partner and I connect spiritually and we have become best friends.

I am in the right place at the right time to commit completely to my life partner. My Soulmate, my life partner is ready to take that leap of faith with me. I trust the Universe to bring us together and surround us with love and light.  My spirit and soul is ready to join with my life partner.

Rev. Colleen Irwin
Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Spiritual being having a human experience as a Blogger, Wife, Mother, Mentor, Healer and Public Speaker living in Rochester New York. Colleen, a Natural Born Medium, teaches, lectures and serves Spirit when called upon. She remembers speaking with Spirit as a child and learning how to share this knowledge with others has been an adventure that she captured in her book “Discovering Your Stream”. Colleen has been mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy, and ordained as a Priest in the Order of Melchizedek by the Reverend Dan Chesboro through the Sanctuary of the Beloved. When she is not doing her Spiritual work she is a volunteer docent sharing Susan B. Anthony's history to visitors of the Susan B. Anthony House in Rochester. Her trust in Spirit gave her a new title – PREVIVOR. She now uses her platform to educate others about the BRCA genetic mutation and how one can take control of their health and well-being.
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