I have been thinking a lot on this subject of regret.   It seems the more spiritual I become the less this plays part in my day to day activities.
I have stopped beating myself up about things that I did or did not do.   I recognize that all of my experiences until now, have been preparing me for something greater than I can even imagine.
This may sound strange to you.  But it is simple. If I do something now, it is something that I had wanted in the now.
Perhaps in a day, a week or a year I will not feel the same way.   At one point in time it is something I wanted.  My thinking may have changed, or the circumstances are different than prior.   It may have been an wonderful experience or a lesson I needed to learn.  Either way, all is good.
Not easy to live without regrets.   It gets easier now that I look at things differently.   Our experiences shape our view of things.   We should never regret making decisions and wanting things that we have wanted in the past.  Nor should we feel bad by the fact that we have learned something to change our minds and what we want.
It is a never ending process…


Rev. Colleen Irwin
Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Spiritual being having a human experience as a Blogger, Wife, Mother, Mentor, Healer and Public Speaker living in Rochester New York. Colleen, a Natural Born Medium, teaches, lectures and serves Spirit when called upon. She remembers speaking with Spirit as a child and learning how to share this knowledge with others has been an adventure that she captured in her book “Discovering Your Stream”. Colleen has been mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy, and ordained as a Priest in the Order of Melchizedek by the Reverend Dan Chesboro through the Sanctuary of the Beloved. When she is not doing her Spiritual work she is a volunteer docent sharing Susan B. Anthony's history to visitors of the Susan B. Anthony House in Rochester. Her trust in Spirit gave her a new title – PREVIVOR. She now uses her platform to educate others about the BRCA genetic mutation and how one can take control of their health and well-being.
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