Dark Night

Understanding the Dark Night of the Soul

A dark night of the soul is a period of deep uncertainty, loss, and inner questioning. It may feel isolating or overwhelming, yet it is a necessary passage for growth and rebirth. These challenging moments strip away what no longer serves you, revealing the deeper essence of who you are.

Embracing the Uncertainty

Fear, confusion, and grief are natural companions during this time. Instead of resisting them, acknowledge your feelings. Allow yourself to sit with the discomfort. The dark night is not a sign of failure — it is a call to explore, release, and rebuild.

The Power of Journaling

Journaling can be a lifeline during this period. Writing allows you to clarify your thoughts, honor your emotions, and listen to your inner self. Here are prompts to guide your reflection:

    • What feelings am I avoiding or afraid to face?
    • What beliefs about myself are being challenged?
    • Where in my life do I feel stuck, and what am I ready to release?
    • What small spark of hope or guidance can I notice today?
    • How can I nurture myself during this uncertain time?

Listening to Your Soul

Beyond journaling, cultivate practices that connect you to your inner guidance. Meditation, prayer, or quiet reflection can help you hear your soul’s voice. Ask yourself: What does my higher self want me to know? Trust that even small insights are valuable stepping stones toward clarity.

Finding Anchors and Support

While the journey is deeply personal, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Lean on trusted friends, supportive partners, or spiritual mentors who honor your process. Even brief moments of connection can remind you that you are not abandoned in your darkness.

Stepping Toward Rebirth

Rebirth emerges when you release old identities and trust in your own inner wisdom. Journaling, listening, and supportive connections help you notice growth even in small ways. Celebrate these steps — each one brings you closer to the wholeness awaiting on the other side of the dark night.

Rev. Colleen Irwin
talkwithcolleen@gmail.com
Triple Capricorn with a cosmic compass, Colleen is a no-nonsense Medium with a mystical flair. She blends psychic precision, heartfelt teaching, and a dash of sass to guide women through the sacred threshold of aging, purpose, and spiritual awakening. Equal parts fire-starter and truth-teller, she helps clients tune into Spirit, confront perfectionism, and rewrite their inner scripts — all while stirring up hope, community, and deep soul alignment. When she's not holding space in circles or speaking on stage, you'll find her journaling, crocheting, or working Tarot like a mirror for the soul. If you like her writing, you can tip her here: https://checkout.square.site/merchant/9RC7V0Z4N80K9/checkout/54W4LZCLYW3AW3N2FJ7KBBFI
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