Are you afraid of failure?

Being afraid of failure is something many people experience.  Nearly 33% of Americans report that fear of failure prevents them from realizing their entrepreneurial dreams. However, failure shouldn’t hold you back. In fact, achieving your goals and realizing your true potential requires it. Most of the success you see around the world is the result of it too. Through trial and error, you learn you learn the best strategies and information to achieve your goals.

Improves Your Strengths and Weaknesses

When you embrace failure, you can better highlight your strengths and weaknesses. Even though it may feel uncomfortable at times, it doesn’t mean you can’t find the positive lessons to be learned. Use this failure to inspire personal growth to improve your skills and increase your confidence and self-esteem.

Brings Out Healthier Perspectives on Life

Life will never be perfect or comfortable all the time. When you learn to accept this fact, you can see that not all failure is miserable or the end of the world. What you perceive as failure won’t be similar to everyone else.

This means you should also take a moment to recognize what your definition of failure is. Then recognize or visualize the consequences to a better plan if it were to happen. Having an alternative plan or a better understanding of your fears and definition of failure provides information for decisions and setting the right goals or deadlines.

Highlights Your Potential

It’s easy to see the negativity in failure. It doesn’t feel great. Your hard work and effort are not completely for knowing, though. When you fail, you learn exactly what you want and don’t want from life. Through failure, you can highlight the experiences you want to continue or move away from. Meaning failure allows you to discover your desires quickly and more easily. In other words, failure can open many doors and opportunities you never knew existed.

Enhances Your Goals and Overall Success

When you better understand who you are and the values you rely upon, you can make better decisions and steps to get there. Instead of dreading or dwelling on the what-ifs, you now have the motivation, drive, and knowledge to go in a better direction.

Enables You to Overcome Fear

By far, the most important benefit to failure is kicking fear. When you go through loss, you learn that you do have what it takes despite the results. You survived through it and now know how to make better choices for yourself and your aspirations.

Learn to be more optimistic and embrace it to give you the resources and knowledge you need to succeed. Failure is part of life and is only as negative and damaging as you let it be.

Rev. Colleen Irwin
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Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Spiritual being having a human experience as a Blogger, Wife, Mother, Mentor, Healer and Public Speaker living in Rochester New York. Colleen, a Natural Born Medium, teaches, lectures and serves Spirit when called upon. She remembers speaking with Spirit as a child and learning how to share this knowledge with others has been an adventure that she captured in her book “Discovering Your Stream”. Colleen has been mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy, and ordained as a Priest in the Order of Melchizedek by the Reverend Dan Chesboro through the Sanctuary of the Beloved. When she is not doing her Spiritual work she is a volunteer docent sharing Susan B. Anthony's history to visitors of the Susan B. Anthony House in Rochester. Her trust in Spirit gave her a new title – PREVIVOR. She now uses her platform to educate others about the BRCA genetic mutation and how one can take control of their health and well-being.
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