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Let Go of Regret: Embrace Your Full Potential

We all carry regrets. It’s part of being human. But what if we stopped letting them hold us back from living to our full potential? Regret, while painful, doesn’t have to define us. Instead, it can serve as a wake-up call, reminding us to take the next step.

I’ve learned the hard way that staying too long in relationships, jobs, or places leads to sorrow. For me, it often comes from not listening to my inner voice—a quiet but persistent guide urging me to move on. But here’s the truth: staying stuck in grief blinds us to the path forward.

Everything happens for a reason, even our regrets. They hold valuable lessons, but when we cling to them, we get trapped in negative patterns, reliving the past rather than learning from it. The key is not to ignore regret but to reflect on it, extract its lessons, and let it go. Now, when regret surfaces, I see it as an opportunity to pause, look inward, and ask, What is this trying to teach me?

Regret can be both an emotional and spiritual burden. It weighs on our hearts and clouds our connection to the present moment. Acknowledge that sorrow touches us on many levels, but don’t let it paralyze you. Recognize it, and then take the next step.

This post might reach you at a time when you’re struggling to release regret. You’ve acknowledged it, but now it’s time to move forward. And here’s the thing: Forgiving yourself is essential. Without forgiveness, regret becomes a weight you carry indefinitely. When you forgive yourself, you can begin shedding those layers of remorse and step into a more empowered version of yourself.

Forgiveness isn’t always easy, but it’s necessary for releasing the past. Moving forward requires acknowledging your regrets and reflecting on how they’ve shaped you. Self-reflection and honesty are essential for this process.

Take a moment to reflect with these journal prompts:

    • What is one regret you’ve been holding onto?
    • How has this regret shaped your life choices?
    • What lesson can you take from this regret to move forward with clarity?

Affirmation:
“I release the past and embrace the lessons it has brought me. I am worthy of forgiveness and ready to move forward with grace and strength.”

Regret is a signpost, not a destination. It’s time to release it. Forgive yourself, learn the lesson, and step boldly into your next chapter. You have the power to rise above regret and create a life that is truly yours to shape.

Rev. Colleen Irwin
Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Wife, Healer, Psychic Medium, Mentor, Author, and Public Speaker from Rochester, New York, with over 30 years of business experience, including her work as a real estate broker. Colleen’s background in training REALTORS honed her skills in conflict resolution, marketing strategies, and analytical as well as presentation skills, which she now applies to her spiritual education and coaching. Colleen teaches, lectures, and serves Spirit, sharing her lifelong connection with the spiritual world, as captured in her book 'Discovering Your Stream.' She has studied with renowned mediums John White and Lisa Williams and was mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy. Ordained in the Order of Melchizedek by Reverend Dan Chesboro, Colleen is also a PREVIVOR who educates others about the BRCA genetic mutation and taking control of their health. Her mission is to empower women through life’s significant changes—whether it be a career shift, parental care giving, health crises, relationship transformations, or spiritual awakenings. Through spiritual education, inspirational talks, and coaching, Colleen offers guidance and hope, helping women embrace their new purpose.
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