better choices


Making better choices is essential to your overall health, happiness, and success. When you make better choices, you understand yourself better, lead with confidence, and project positivity as you achieve your goals.

With sound decision-making skills, you can ensure that you live the life you’ve always wanted. Follow the four easy steps below to make better decisions in your life.

Step One: Define Your Life Goals

If you don’t know what you want from life, you are more likely to make the poor choices. Not only that but going with the flow can waste precious time and resources. When you clearly define your goals, you understand your wants and needs better. As you select and implement tools and resources to help you control and direct your life, you learn even more about yourself and your goals.

Step Two: Accept Your Mistakes and Avoid Perfectionism

Making better choices doesn’t mean you won’t make mistakes. Stop trying to achieve perfection. It’s an unrealistic goal and only leads to more problems and impedes your progress. Trying to be perfect decreases your confidence and motivation over time. When you anticipate and accept the possibility of making mistakes, you are more likely to find a quick solution, pick yourself up, and continue on to succeed.

Step Three: Evaluate Possible Results and Consequences

As you make choices, visualize the possible short-term and long-term consequences of your actions. What may seem like a wonderful short-term decision may not benefit you in the long-term. This is why you need to think though and plan for common problematic results.

Step Four: Change Your Perspective

Ask for help and feedback from those you admire and trust the most. First, explain your situation and the goals you’d like to achieve in life. Then, ask for information and resources they can provide. This can help you see and understand problems and options from a different angle.

Their experiences in life can be more valuable than your own. To further change your perspective, act as if you are giving your best friend or family member advice instead of yourself. You are often your own worst critic but removing yourself from the situation can help clear your judgment.

Overall, the key to make better life choices is involves accepting your faults, recognizing your potential, managing your emotions and activities. Then, make a conscious decision to discover what you want, as well as what actions you need to take to achieve your success.  Collect the resources and tools you need to start making better choices and take the steps needed to reach your goal and succeed.


Rev. Colleen Irwin
Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Spiritual being having a human experience as a Blogger, Wife, Mother, Mentor, Healer and Public Speaker living in Rochester New York. Colleen, a Natural Born Medium, teaches, lectures and serves Spirit when called upon. She remembers speaking with Spirit as a child and learning how to share this knowledge with others has been an adventure that she captured in her book “Discovering Your Stream”. Colleen has been mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy, and ordained as a Priest in the Order of Melchizedek by the Reverend Dan Chesboro through the Sanctuary of the Beloved. When she is not doing her Spiritual work she is a volunteer docent sharing Susan B. Anthony's history to visitors of the Susan B. Anthony House in Rochester. Her trust in Spirit gave her a new title – PREVIVOR. She now uses her platform to educate others about the BRCA genetic mutation and how one can take control of their health and well-being.
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