Tag: BRCA2
I have the BRCA2 gene mutation that raised my risk to over a 90% chance I would have breast cancer.
Every woman that decides to have genetic testing has a reason. Mine was my family history. In 2018 my mother lost her battle with cancer. Breast cancer when she was 30 and again at 50. Then cervical, bladder and ultimately stomach cancer that took her life. Both her mother and grandmother also had breast cancer, so we believe that is where the gene comes from. One of my mother’s cousins died from Ovarian cancer.
My story is very different. I decided to find out my genetic risk and fight this on my own terms. I didn’t wait for cancer. With that, I am doing everything to ensure that I do not have to have cancer. Which resulted in some body altering decisions with a hysterectomy, followed by double mastectomy and reconstruction. I was 53 when I did this, older than most women, so the stories I saw were of much younger women going through this process.
I feel fortunate that everything has come back clear and that I caught this before it was a problem. Many women who undergo preventative surgery, end up only to find cancer at a very early stage. As a #previvor I have learned much about myself and how strong I am. I have not always had it easy going through the process. Others have had it far worse than I have. This is my story and what has happened as I have gone through this journey. It is my hopes that somehow my story will help someone else go through the process with a little more ease.
Learning to Understand Others Means Tolerance
It is scary that so few people take the time to truly understand someone else and their beliefs. Instead of tolerance there is judgement, hate and a division among people.
Surgery during a Pandemic
Surgery? During a pandemic? Crazy, right? Yet that is exactly what is happening with me today! Life is slowly off pause and onto the road to a new normal.
The Pandemic Waiting Game
This is an unprecedented time in history and it can be scary. You can either live in fear or have faith that it will all work out in the end. I choose faith. How about you?
What’s my vision?
My Vision is Cloudy My vision statement hasn’t changed in years. Part of my 30 day writing challenge has been setting goals and understanding where writing is taking me. It is amazing to be asked what is my vision. My vision, regarding writing, professional and personal. It is funny as I review what I have […]
Today is the day…
Today is the day that I speak my peace. Perhaps this movement was to get me to use my voice and release the negativity. To wait patiently for things to unfold.
We all heal at different rates…
Let’s talk about how our bodies heal. I have learned that recovery is different for everyone. While some bounce back, it takes others longer and that’s fine.
Procrastination is a Sign
Stop beating yourself up for your procrastination! Perhaps you need to look at your goals and re-evaluate them so you are not stressed out.
Letting go is not always easy…
Letting go of control is not easy. One of my three words for 2020 was release; another movement and my third is voice. As I write this I see how they are coming into existence much like words in previous years have. Since my BRCA2 diagnosis I have been floundering — spiritually. The Reformed Spiritualist […]
The Power of the Written Word
I now understand why some people called me brave. I felt the fear and I pushed forward and did what was necessary. I did not allow fear to rule me. Neither should you.
Giving myself a break
I am giving myself a break. Yesterday I put my Health Club membership on hold. I am accepting that my recovery from the first two surgeries is not going as well as I wanted to. The thing that most people don’t talk about is the cumulative effect of multiple surgeries. Let’s face it — two […]