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Healing the Self, Serving Others: Balancing Personal Growth and Mediumship

Serving others is something that Mediums strive to do.  As a medium, you have a unique gift to connect with the spirit world and offer guidance to others. However, balancing this gift with personal growth and self-care is crucial. Healing the self and serving others go hand in hand, and finding harmony between the two can lead to a more fulfilling and sustainable practice.

The Importance of Self-Healing

Before you can fully serve others, it’s essential to focus on your healing journey. Self-healing involves acknowledging and addressing your physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. By doing so, you can maintain the energy and clarity needed to provide accurate and compassionate readings.

    • Self-Awareness: Understanding your own strengths and limitations is the first step towards healing. Reflect on your experiences and emotions, and recognize areas that need attention.
    • Physical Well-being: A healthy body supports a healthy mind and spirit. Ensure you’re getting enough rest, nutrition, and exercise to keep your energy levels high.
    • Emotional Balance: Address any unresolved emotional issues through practices such as journaling, meditation, or seeking support from a therapist or counselor.
    • Spiritual Nourishment: Engage in activities that nourish your spirit, such as prayer, meditation, or spending time in nature. These practices help you stay grounded and connected to your higher self.

Serving Others with a Balanced Heart

Once you’ve established a foundation of self-healing, you can serve others more effectively. Mediumship requires a balance of empathy, intuition, and professional boundaries. Here are some tips to maintain this balance:

    • Set Boundaries: It’s essential to establish clear boundaries with clients to protect your energy and ensure a healthy exchange. This includes setting limits on session times and being clear about your availability.
    • Practice Empathy: While it’s important to empathize with your clients, avoid taking on their emotional burdens. Practice detachment to maintain your emotional well-being.
    • Continuous Learning: Stay committed to your personal and professional development. Attend workshops, read books, and seek mentorship to enhance your skills and knowledge.
    • Self-Reflection: After each session, take time to reflect on the experience. Consider what went well and what could be improved. This practice helps you grow and stay aligned with your purpose.

Balancing Personal Growth and Mediumship

Finding balance between personal growth and mediumship is an ongoing journey. Here are some strategies to help you maintain harmony:

    • Regular Self-Care: Schedule regular self-care activities to recharge your energy. This could include massages, yoga, or simply taking a relaxing bath.
    • Mindfulness Practices: Incorporate mindfulness practices into your daily routine. Mindfulness helps you stay present and manage stress effectively.
    • Community Support: Connect with other mediums and spiritual practitioners. Sharing experiences and insights can provide valuable support and inspiration.
    • Create a Routine: Establish a routine that includes time for personal growth, professional development, and mediumship practice. A balanced schedule ensures you don’t neglect any aspect of your life.

Embrace the Journey

Balancing personal growth and mediumship is a dynamic and rewarding process. By prioritizing self-healing and setting healthy boundaries, you can serve others with a full heart and clear mind. Remember that your well-being is the foundation of your ability to help others. Embrace the journey of healing the self and serving others, and watch as both aspects of your life flourish.

Share your experiences and tips on balancing personal growth and mediumship in the comments below. I’d love to hear your stories and insights!

Rev. Colleen Irwin
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Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Wife, Healer, Psychic Medium, Mentor, Author, and Public Speaker from Rochester, New York, with over 30 years of business experience, including her work as a real estate broker. Colleen’s background in training REALTORS honed her skills in conflict resolution, marketing strategies, and analytical as well as presentation skills, which she now applies to her spiritual education and coaching. Colleen teaches, lectures, and serves Spirit, sharing her lifelong connection with the spiritual world, as captured in her book 'Discovering Your Stream.' She has studied with renowned mediums John White and Lisa Williams and was mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy. Ordained in the Order of Melchizedek by Reverend Dan Chesboro, Colleen is also a PREVIVOR who educates others about the BRCA genetic mutation and taking control of their health. Her mission is to empower women through life’s significant changes—whether it be a career shift, parental care giving, health crises, relationship transformations, or spiritual awakenings. Through spiritual education, inspirational talks, and coaching, Colleen offers guidance and hope, helping women embrace their new purpose.
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