With great power comes great responsibility

With Mediumship Comes Responsibility: Why Words Matter

“With great power comes great responsibility.” This iconic line from Spider-Man resonates deeply when applied to mediumship. Early in my journey, a friend shared this quote with me, and it has stayed with me ever since. Once you understand the impact of your words, you also become responsible for their consequences. When in doubt, it’s often better to say nothing at all.

Why Responsibility Matters in Mediumship

Mediumship is a powerful gift, but it comes with an equally significant responsibility. The messages you share can have profound effects on the people you serve. As mediums, we must weigh the importance of our words and how they might be received.

Sometimes, even well-intentioned messages can cause harm if shared thoughtlessly. I’ve made this mistake—and I’ll never forget the lesson it taught me. The intention might have been pure, but the impact was unsettling for the sitter. This experience reinforced the importance of choosing words carefully and considering the emotional state of the person receiving the message.

Responsibility With Words: The Power to Comfort or Crush

Words are powerful. They can bring comfort, hope, and healing, but they can also confuse, alarm, or hurt. As a medium, it’s crucial to:

• Be mindful of the words you choose.
• Avoid inserting personal beliefs or biases into the reading.
• Keep your tone, facial expressions, and inflection neutral and reassuring.

For example, phrases like “I think you…” should be avoided. They suggest personal opinion rather than a message from Spirit, which can undermine trust and clarity. Stick to what Spirit is communicating, free from the lens of your own interpretation.

Why We Avoid Certain Topics

As mediums, we often steer clear of sensitive topics like relationships and health for good reason: we could be wrong. Misinterpreting Spirit’s message can lead to unnecessary fear or distress. For instance, I once became aware of a heart attack while connecting with a Spirit. The heart attack wasn’t a warning for the sitter but a detail to help identify the Spirit. Unfortunately, the way I presented the message created unnecessary concern for the sitter’s health.

Situations like this underscore the importance of:

• Clarity: Work closely with Spirit to ensure the message is clear.
• Focus: Share only what Spirit communicates, without adding personal assumptions.

Building Trust With Spirit

Mediumship is a partnership with Spirit. When you approach your work with care and responsibility, Spirit responds in kind. Here’s how to foster that trust:

• Be Clear: Ask Spirit to clarify details when needed.
• Be Honest: If you’re unsure of a message, it’s better to admit it than risk causing harm.
• Be Respectful: Honor the role Spirit plays in guiding your work.

When you prioritize responsibility, you strengthen your connection with Spirit and serve your sitters with greater integrity.

Key Takeaways for Responsible Mediumship

• Mediumship is a gift, but it comes with great responsibility.
• Choose your words carefully; they have the power to heal or harm.
• Avoid sensitive topics like health or relationships to minimize potential harm.
• Collaborate with Spirit to ensure clarity and accuracy.

Remember, your words can profoundly impact others. By approaching mediumship with responsibility and care, you honor both Spirit and the people you serve.