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Four Steps to Taking Control of Your Life

At some point in your life, and maybe even now, you will feel like you lost control of it or that someone else is taking control. This is normal, and many people go through this period in life more than once. No matter how hard or scary your life is, you do have what it takes to be in charge of it and take back control. Getting control of your life is not impossible. It’s totally in your hands.

It starts with taking a step back to get a deeper understanding of yourself and find a way to harness your confidence to guide yourself through the difficult path and reward path to success. A little determination, willpower, hope, and desire are all you need to take back control of your life.

Here are four steps to follow, regardless of what’s happening in your life right now:

Step One: Recognize Your Wants and Make a Commitment to Change

First, you need to understand what you want from life. Without a clear idea or plan, you won’t be able to make the right decisions or turns. Without a plan, you are more like to go with the flow and allow others to take control of your daily actions — further preventing you from taking the right steps to achieving your goals. Start with identifying one long-term goal and take a moment to recognize it daily to commit to change.

Step Two: Define the Challenge and Obstacles

Once you know what you want, you need to identify the common things likely to get in your way. This requires being honest with yourself. Just because it is a problem for you doesn’t mean others on a similar path experience it. The more honest and mindful you are, the more control you have.

Step Three: Create a Detailed Action Plan

Again, you have to have a plan if you want to live a successful life. This way, you can ensure that you won’t get distracted, feel lost or allow others to drive you down the wrong path. The more detailed, clear, and timely the plan is, the more likely you will be successful.

Step Four: Take Action, Keep Track and Enhance

A plan is only successful if you follow it, improve it and keep track of it. As time goes on, your plan could change as you grow and take more control of your life.

Follow these steps any moment you feel lost in life. Remember, it is only natural, and you are not alone in this process. No successful person gets there without a little deviation from their main plan. All it takes is a little preparation to fully understand who you are and what you want out of life, a commitment to change, and continuous action to get the control you need or want back. To achieve your dreams, aspirations, and more is fully in your power.


Rev. Colleen Irwin
Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Spiritual being having a human experience as a Blogger, Wife, Mother, Mentor, Healer and Public Speaker living in Rochester New York. Colleen, a Natural Born Medium, teaches, lectures and serves Spirit when called upon. She remembers speaking with Spirit as a child and learning how to share this knowledge with others has been an adventure that she captured in her book “Discovering Your Stream”. Colleen has been mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy, and ordained as a Priest in the Order of Melchizedek by the Reverend Dan Chesboro through the Sanctuary of the Beloved. When she is not doing her Spiritual work she is a volunteer docent sharing Susan B. Anthony's history to visitors of the Susan B. Anthony House in Rochester. Her trust in Spirit gave her a new title – PREVIVOR. She now uses her platform to educate others about the BRCA genetic mutation and how one can take control of their health and well-being.
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