Bullying Beyond Belief: Identifying and Confronting Toxic Behavior in Church

It often surprises people that there is toxic behavior in Spiritualist Churches.  In the realm of spiritual communities, one might assume that kindness, compassion, and unity prevail. However, just like any other sphere of society, religious organizations are not immune to the scourge of bullying. It’s a topic often brushed under the rug, as we […]

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Using Tarot to Understand Situations

I have needed to understand situations in my life and struggled.   Perhaps I have been too close to them — the situations.  I clearly was not thinking objectively.   So I pulled out my Tarot deck and asked “what am I missing in this situation?” Five cards later, and deep reflection I saw it.   It was […]

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The Unique Qualities of Small Churches in Spiritualism

Have you ever thought about the unique qualities a small church offers?  In the realm of spiritualism, small churches possess a charm and authenticity that can be easily overlooked. These intimate congregations, often nestled within local communities, bring forth distinctive qualities that enrich the world of spiritualism. Let’s explore what makes them truly special. Close-knit […]

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Embracing the Spirituality of Your Small Church

To start, I worship at a small church in Rochester New York.  We often have conversations about how to grow.  That has had me thinking a lot about this over the years.  I have even written a suggested guide to selecting a Spiritualist Church.  Let us explore a topic close to my heart – the […]

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Finding Your Spiritual Home: Discovering the Right Spiritualist Church

Searching for a spiritual home that truly feels like home can be an arduous process. With so many options, it’s tough determining which congregation genuinely aligns with spiritualist principles versus simply paying lip service. As someone who spent years bouncing between various churches and centers seeking the right fit, I want to share some thoughts […]

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What is Candle Reading?

Glimpses Across the Veil: Spiritualist Candle Reading Why candle reading?  Come the deep midwinter, enigmatic candles flicker in frosted windows—beckoning bonds to those bereft by death’s bitter blade. Seeking solace, the suffering gather in hushed spiritualist temples to attend the candle readings, where love eclipses loss in tallow, smoke, and flame. In this solemn ritual, […]

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Questions to ask before joining a Spiritual Church

Before joining a Spiritualist Church you may have questions.   Not all Spiritualist Churches are equal.  In fact there are some that are on the brink of total chaos.   You may just not see it at a single visit or even after a few.  Too often, it is after you have joined that the cracks become […]

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Give and Take of Life

The give and take of life is not fair.   Balance.   Sometimes everything is going for you, sometimes not at all. I don’t always have all the answers, but I do know that there are times that I can be the one person who can help someone.   Most often it is the person who can ill […]

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Count Your Blessings

Count Your Blessings was originally written on November 15, 2017. It is important to note that I have never officially been notified as to what happened. I have had several people off the record say they were sorry.   One of the first songs I heard in a Spiritualist Church was Count Your Blessings and it […]

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