Rev. Colleen Irwin

Who Can Help Me Reconnect with My Purpose?

Who can help me reconnect with my purpose is a big question many of us have.  If you’ve ever whispered this question to yourself — maybe through tears or during a quiet moment alone — you are not lost. You are awakening.

It’s not uncommon to feel disconnected from your purpose, especially during the second half of life. The roles you once played may no longer fit. The things that used to light you up might feel dim. But none of that means you’ve failed. It means you’re being invited to go deeper.

The Subtle Signs You’ve Drifted From Purpose

Sometimes, it’s not one big moment that makes us question our path. It’s the slow unraveling:

• You’re going through the motions, but your heart feels flat.
• You long for something more, but you can’t name what it is.
• You have a deep sense that something’s missing, but the world sees you as “fine.”

These are signs. Not of weakness, but of change. Of growth. Of your soul calling you home.

Purpose Evolves — And So Do You

You may have felt clear about your purpose at one time. Maybe you were raising a family, building a career, or showing up for your community. But now? Things are shifting. You’re shifting.

Transitions like menopause, empty nest, retirement, care giving, or loss can change us from the inside out. What once felt purposeful may no longer resonate. That’s not a crisis — that’s transformation.

Purpose isn’t a single destination. It’s a living, breathing relationship with your soul. And like any relationship, it requires tending.

Who Can Help You Reconnect?

You don’t have to figure this out alone. The right kind of support can make all the difference.

• A spiritual guide or mentor
  Someone who helps you hear your own inner voice again. A guide doesn’t hand you a purpose — they help you remember what you already know.

• A therapist or coach
  Mental health professionals and life coaches can offer practical tools and insight. If you’re dealing with trauma, grief, or major change, they can be an essential part of your journey.

• A sacred circle or supportive community
  Sometimes, healing happens in a circle of kindred souls. In a space where stories are shared and vulnerability is honored, you might just find pieces of yourself reflected back.

As a spiritualist and psychic medium, I hold space for women who are searching for that deeper connection. I help you hear your own soul’s voice, and I support you as you rediscover your path — not the one others expect you to follow, but the one that truly feels like home.

What It Looks Like to Reconnect With Your Purpose

This journey is rarely dramatic. It’s usually quiet and sacred. You might:

• Start journaling again
• Feel drawn to Tarot or intuitive practices
• Begin meditating or walking in silence
• Notice synchronicities, dreams, or gentle nudges from Spirit

You don’t need all the answers today. What you need is a beginning — a willingness to listen.

Start by asking yourself:

• What brings me peace, even in small moments?
• When do I feel most like myself?

You’re Not Broken. You’re Becoming.

If you’re asking, “Who can help me reconnect with my purpose?” — the answer is: someone who honors both your past and your potential. Someone who sees you not as lost, but as in-between. And someone who understands that spiritual re-connection is an act of courage.

If this resonates, I invite you to explore this path with me. Whether through one-on-one sessions, upcoming workshops, or simply by reading more here, you’re welcome in this space.

Your soul hasn’t forgotten its purpose. It’s just waiting for you to ask the question — and be brave enough to listen for the answer.