Tag: Control
Preventing Weaponized Incompetence Before It Starts
Preventing Weaponized Incompetence Before It Starts It’s frustrating to deal with weaponized incompetence, but what if you could stop it before it starts? While you can’t control other people’s behavior, you can set clear expectations, establish boundaries, create accountability, and create an environment where this tactic doesn’t thrive. Setting Clear Expectations from the Start One […]
The Ripple Effect: How Everyday Actions Create Change
The ripple effect of kindness cannot be discounted. In a world that often feels chaotic and divided, it’s easy to wonder if our small actions truly matter. We see injustice, pain, and struggle, and we might feel powerless to create change. But change doesn’t always come from grand gestures or sweeping movements—it often starts with […]
Responding to Weaponized Incompetence in the Moment
Responding to Weaponized Incompetence in the Moment It’s frustrating to watch someone dodge responsibility by pretending they don’t know how to complete a task—or doing it so poorly that you’re forced to step in. Weaponized incompetence thrives when left unchecked, but addressing it head-on can feel uncomfortable. If you don’t call it out, the cycle […]
Weekly Affirmation – Trust in Spirit
Weekly Affirmation: Trust in Spirit Our trust in Spirit can waver at times. It is a challenge, I get it. When we take the opportunity and focus on what we can control and let what happens happen believing that it is for the best, miracles start to happen. Take a moment to center yourself. Close […]
Increase Your Energy
How to Increase Your Energy and Productivity Each Day To increase your energy you need to evaluate some things in your life. Are you stressed out because you have too much to do and not enough time to do it? Maybe it seems that way, but every person on the planet gets the same 24 […]
Practice the Pause
Practicing the Pause: Strengthening Your Connection in Mediumship I often tell my students that they need to practice the pause while delivering a message from Spirit. As mediums, our connection to Spirit is built on trust and clarity. One of the most powerful yet often overlooked tools to enhance that connection is the simple act […]
Giving Yourself Permission to Forget
Give yourself permission to forget that which is unnecessary to remember. Acknowledge that forgetting something is okay.
Weekly Affirmation – Standing Up for Yourself
Standing up for yourself is an essential skill in maintaining your personal power. Whether it’s speaking your truth or protecting your values, asserting yourself with confidence is key.This is where affirmations are a great help. This weeks affirmation is as follows: I trust my instincts and take action when necessary. About Weekly Affirmations Each week […]
Moving Beyond the Need for Instant Validation
Trusting Spirit: Moving Beyond the Need for Instant Validation Many new mediums face the challenge of seeking instant validation. We want to be right, to help Spirit, and to give the sitter the perfect message. But this pressure often comes from within. We get so focused on the outcome—on hearing the sitter say, “Yes, that’s […]
Mediumship Failure – A Lesson in Growth
3 Powerful Quotes to Help You “Fail Forward” in Mediumship Mediumship can feel overwhelming, and mediumship failure can be frustrating. We engage with deep emotions, knowing our words carry power. Every reading is an opportunity to connect with Spirit and offer healing, but that responsibility also makes mistakes feel heavy. When something doesn’t go as […]