Tag: Control
Malicious Compliance in Everyday Life
When Following the Rules Goes Wrong: Malicious Compliance in Everyday Life We’ve all seen it—someone follows instructions to the letter, knowing full well that doing so will create chaos, inefficiency, or frustration. Welcome to the world of malicious compliance, where people weaponize obedience to prove a point, dodge responsibility, or make life harder for someone […]
Re-frame Your Expectations With Your Mediumship
Embracing the Journey of Mediumship Do you need to re-frame your expectations as you are studying mediumship? Expectations play a powerful role in how we experience mediumship. Whether you’re just beginning or have been practicing for years, it’s easy to set high expectations for yourself and your connection with Spirit. But what happens when things […]
Preventing Weaponized Incompetence Before It Starts
Preventing Weaponized Incompetence Before It Starts It’s frustrating to deal with weaponized incompetence, but what if you could stop it before it starts? While you can’t control other people’s behavior, you can set clear expectations, establish boundaries, create accountability, and create an environment where this tactic doesn’t thrive. Setting Clear Expectations from the Start One […]
The Ripple Effect: How Everyday Actions Create Change
The ripple effect of kindness cannot be discounted. In a world that often feels chaotic and divided, it’s easy to wonder if our small actions truly matter. We see injustice, pain, and struggle, and we might feel powerless to create change. But change doesn’t always come from grand gestures or sweeping movements—it often starts with […]
Responding to Weaponized Incompetence in the Moment
Responding to Weaponized Incompetence in the Moment It’s frustrating to watch someone dodge responsibility by pretending they don’t know how to complete a task—or doing it so poorly that you’re forced to step in. Weaponized incompetence thrives when left unchecked, but addressing it head-on can feel uncomfortable. If you don’t call it out, the cycle […]
Do you need an Attitude Adjustment?
Has someone told you that you need an attitude adjustment? Before you get angry with them, perhaps they may be onto something. They care enough about you to point you in a positive direction. It is human nature to be defensive when someone points out a weakness in ourselves. Trust me, I can relate. Change […]
Weekly Affirmation – Trust in Spirit
Weekly Affirmation: Trust in Spirit Our trust in Spirit can waver at times. It is a challenge, I get it. When we take the opportunity and focus on what we can control and let what happens happen believing that it is for the best, miracles start to happen. Take a moment to center yourself. Close […]
Increase Your Energy
How to Increase Your Energy and Productivity Each Day To increase your energy you need to evaluate some things in your life. Are you stressed out because you have too much to do and not enough time to do it? Maybe it seems that way, but every person on the planet gets the same 24 […]
Practice the Pause
Practicing the Pause: Strengthening Your Connection in Mediumship I often tell my students that they need to practice the pause while delivering a message from Spirit. As mediums, our connection to Spirit is built on trust and clarity. One of the most powerful yet often overlooked tools to enhance that connection is the simple act […]
Giving Yourself Permission to Forget
Give yourself permission to forget that which is unnecessary to remember. Acknowledge that forgetting something is okay.