The Surprising Benefits of Weaknesses

If you ask one hundred people in one room their main weaknesses, you will likely get nearly one hundred different answers. This is because weaknesses are personal and variable. While the term itself means a lack of strength in something, it doesn’t mean it is consistent with each person or you. In other words, what you see as a weakness in yourself may be someone’s strongest asset – thus highlighting the important fact that weaknesses are not nor should be viewed as always negative.

 The following are the benefits of understanding and embracing your weaknesses:

Increased Self-Awareness and Understanding

Fully embracing and understanding your weaknesses gives you the information needed to improve and grow in life. It provides a better understanding of who you are, what you want from your life, and what you need to adjust to get there. Without mindfulness or self-awareness, you will feel disconnected, lonely, and likely constantly agitated as you struggle to know who you are and the right steps or goals you should take each day.

Increased Compassion and Ability to Connect with Others

Embracing your weaknesses allows you to understand that no one is perfect, nor should their value be based on their abilities. No matter what they can do, they still deserve love and compassion just like anyone else. It also gives you the ability to relate and accept the weaknesses around others and accept that others can provide you with better help. The result enables you to grow your relationships and increase your understanding of the world.

Increased Appreciation for Strengths

The best thing a weakness can do is highlight and grow your appreciation of your strengths. It shows that while you may not perform in some areas, you know that you can, for a fact, perform in others. Accepting your weaknesses means you allow your strengths to shine to empower you to make the right steps each day towards your dreams.

Increased Determination and Motivation

Being more determined and having more motivation gives you something to work on or challenge yourself on to feel more accomplished in life. Through weaknesses comes the ability to handle success with determination, focus, and motivation. Without these challenges in life, there would be no way to gauge success or accomplishment.

There is no reason to ignore or avoid your weaknesses. Instead, it would help if you embraced them to empower and develop to your truest potential. Embracing your weaknesses shows strength, self-awareness, understanding, compassion, and a passion to go after your goals.


Rev. Colleen Irwin
Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Spiritual being having a human experience as a Blogger, Wife, Mother, Mentor, Healer and Public Speaker living in Rochester New York. Colleen, a Natural Born Medium, teaches, lectures and serves Spirit when called upon. She remembers speaking with Spirit as a child and learning how to share this knowledge with others has been an adventure that she captured in her book “Discovering Your Stream”. Colleen has been mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy, and ordained as a Priest in the Order of Melchizedek by the Reverend Dan Chesboro through the Sanctuary of the Beloved. When she is not doing her Spiritual work she is a volunteer docent sharing Susan B. Anthony's history to visitors of the Susan B. Anthony House in Rochester. Her trust in Spirit gave her a new title – PREVIVOR. She now uses her platform to educate others about the BRCA genetic mutation and how one can take control of their health and well-being.
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