Make someone happy.... - Rev. Colleen Irwin

Giving Without Expectation: Discover True Joy

It’s easy to make someone happy. What’s difficult is doing so without expecting anything in return. We often give with the hope of getting something back. The real power lies in giving without this expectation.

When you give freely, it’s a true gift—a gift of love, our true purpose. This type of giving enriches both the giver and the receiver. It creates a ripple effect of kindness and positivity that can spread far beyond the initial act.

Consider the last time you gave something without expecting anything back. How did it make you feel? There’s a unique joy in knowing that your actions brought happiness to someone else, purely out of love and compassion.

In our daily lives, we often get caught up in the give-and-take mindset. It’s natural to want acknowledgment or reciprocation. However, true fulfillment comes when we let go of these expectations and embrace the simple act of giving.

Try to incorporate this practice into your routine. Start small—help a neighbor with their groceries, offer a kind word to a stranger, or surprise a friend with a thoughtful note. Do these things without looking for a thank you or a favor in return.

Over time, you may find that this approach brings a deeper sense of happiness and connection. You’ll begin to see the world through a lens of abundance rather than scarcity, where giving becomes a source of joy rather than a transaction.

Embrace the power of giving without expectation. You might discover a joy you’ve never known before.