“Mediumship: Gift or Skill?”
“Mediumship: Gift or Skill?”
Recently, someone posed a thought-provoking question on social media: Is mediumship a gift or a skill? The question, along with the insightful responses from the community, sparked my reflection on this fascinating topic. I began to think about how we each experience mediumship and how we choose to use our abilities to serve others.
One comment in particular stood out to me: “My belief is that you have an ABILITY. The GIFT is when you use it to help people.” This simple yet profound statement highlights an important distinction between having the ability and choosing how to apply it. The true “gift” lies in applying mediumship for the benefit of others—in bringing healing, comfort, and guidance to those who need it. I have personally witnessed the power of mediumship transform lives when used with care and compassion. It’s this act of service that brings a sense of purpose and fulfillment to those who walk this path.
A Personal Note
For me, mediumship always felt like a natural gift, though my journey wasn’t always so clear. At first, I believed I had to learn it from scratch, almost like a skill you’d master through studying and practice. However, over time, I realized that much of the journey involved unlearning the limiting beliefs I had about myself and Spirit. Once I let go of those constraints, my connection to Spirit flowed freely, and I began to understand that mediumship was always within me, waiting to be expressed.
That said, I also recognize the value of developing this ability. Even those who feel naturally gifted must dedicate time and energy to honing their connection with Spirit. Mediumship, like any skill, benefits from practice and refinement. This is where the idea of mediumship as a skill comes into play. Just as a musician practices their instrument, mediums must practice their craft. Whether the ability feels like a gift or not, we must nurture it to reach its full potential.
Another response I found thought-provoking came from someone who viewed mediumship as a ministry. They shared their personal commitment to never charging for readings, seeing mediumship as a sacred calling. They wrote, “No judgment to those who do, we’re all on a different path,” reminding me how personal and diverse our spiritual journeys can be. Some see their work as a sacred duty, something to be shared freely with others, while others recognize that mediumship can be a career—one that involves an important energy exchange. Both paths are valid. As mediums, we must find the approach that aligns with our own beliefs and values.
A Ministry
In my practice, I believe balance is key. I charge for readings and teachings because it honors the energy exchange required to sustain my work. However, I also feel deeply called to give back, so I offer pro-bono work through churches and community fundraisers. This balance allows me to serve both my clients and the broader community, which feels essential to maintaining the integrity of my work. I have always felt that mediumship, when done with the right intention, should never be about personal gain alone—it should be about lifting others and helping those in need.
One commenter suggested that everyone has the potential for mediumship, but some possess a higher natural ability. They compared mediumship to other talents, saying, “Some are gifted with a higher natural ability.” I have seen this with students I’ve worked with—some come in with an already strong connection to Spirit, while others develop it over time through dedication and practice. Mediumship can indeed be developed like a skill, even if it doesn’t feel like a natural gift at first. Those who work hard to cultivate their connection often surprise themselves with how far they can go.
A Sacred Privilege
Yet, another perspective that made me reflect on mediumship in a different way came from a comment about Spirit’s influence. Someone said, “Spirit can change or withdraw these abilities, which makes it feel more like a gift… a sacred privilege we are granted if we use it properly.” This reminds me that mediumship comes with great responsibility. I don’t believe Spirit would ever allow me to use my clairvoyance for personal gain, such as winning the lottery or other self-serving purposes. To me, the essence of mediumship lies in using these abilities for the greater good—not for personal advancement. When we misuse our gifts, we step outside the spiritual alignment they require.
I also believe in karma. If we misuse our abilities or use them to cause harm, the energy we send out may return to us tenfold. I’ve seen this play out in the lives of people who lose their connection to Spirit when they fail to honor it with humility and respect. Mediumship is not just a gift or a skill; it’s a responsibility to act with integrity. When we stay aligned with the highest good, we deepen our connection to Spirit, and in turn, we are trusted with more profound messages.
So, is mediumship a gift or a skill?
In truth, it can be both. For some, the ability comes naturally, like a gift bestowed by Spirit. For others, it’s a skill developed through hard work and dedication. But regardless of how mediumship comes to us, the real essence lies in how we choose to use it. Whether we see it as a gift or a skill, our intention is what truly matters. The more we align our work with love, service, and integrity, the more we can trust our abilities will flourish.
I encourage you to reflect: How do you experience your connection to Spirit? Do you see it as a gift, a skill, or perhaps both? Whatever your answer, remember that the true power lies in how you choose to use it.
