You lead by example -- good or bad...

You lead every day.  You many not be aware, good or bad, people are watching you.  We often think of leaders as people in high positions—elected officials, CEOs, or public figures. But real leadership lives much closer to home. It’s in the neighbor who checks on the elderly, the friend who organizes a local clean-up, or the coworker who lifts team morale.

Leadership in our communities doesn’t require a title. It only requires a heart that cares and hands willing to help.

Leadership Starts Where You Are

“Leadership is not about titles or recognition. It’s about showing up for your community.”

Many people hold back because they believe leadership belongs to someone “more qualified.” But our communities thrive when everyday people choose to step up in small but meaningful ways. Whether it’s lending a hand, sharing a smile, or creating safe spaces for conversation, these actions shape the culture of where we live.

The Myth of the “Perfect” Leader

There is no such thing as a perfect leader. Waiting for perfection only delays progress. Communities are built by people who dare to take action, even if they don’t have all the answers. Leadership is about participation, not perfection.

Everyday Leaders in Action

Think of the person who starts a community garden, volunteers at a local shelter, or advocates for safer streets. These leaders create change not with grand gestures, but with steady, consistent action. They are proof that impact begins with intention.

Facing Resistance

Not everyone will understand your efforts. Some may resist change or question your motives. Remember: your role is not to seek universal approval, but to serve with sincerity. Focus on the positive change you’re creating, and trust that your efforts will inspire others in time.

Becoming a Leader in Your Community

  • Start with what matters to you.
  • Take small, consistent actions.
  • Support others and celebrate community wins.
  • Stay rooted in kindness and respect.
  • Encourage others to lead in their own way.

Leadership isn’t reserved for the few—it’s a role open to all of us. The more we each show up in our communities, the stronger and more connected we become.

So I’ll ask you this:
What is one small way you can lead in your community today?

Rev. Colleen Irwin
talkwithcolleen@gmail.com
Triple Capricorn with a cosmic compass, Colleen is a no-nonsense Medium with a mystical flair. She blends psychic precision, heartfelt teaching, and a dash of sass to guide women through the sacred threshold of aging, purpose, and spiritual awakening. Equal parts fire-starter and truth-teller, she helps clients tune into Spirit, confront perfectionism, and rewrite their inner scripts — all while stirring up hope, community, and deep soul alignment. When she's not holding space in circles or speaking on stage, you'll find her journaling, crocheting, or working Tarot like a mirror for the soul. If you like her writing, you can tip her here: https://checkout.square.site/merchant/9RC7V0Z4N80K9/checkout/54W4LZCLYW3AW3N2FJ7KBBFI
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