Tag: Vulnerability
Creating A Safe Space: Helping Shut-Down Sitters Open Up
Supporting a Sitter Who Feels Emotionally Shut Down Creating a safe space for sitters is not something we often talk about. As mediums, we often meet people at vulnerable moments. Some sitters arrive open and ready. Others show up emotionally guarded, unsure if they can trust the process or even themselves. When this happens, it’s […]
Barry Manilow and the Magic of Feeling
Barry Manilow and the Magic of Feeling: A Tarot-Inspired Reflection Some artists don’t just write songs — they create lifelines. For me, Barry Manilow is that artist. His music was the backdrop of my early teen years, and in many ways, the reason I made it through them. Those were the years when I was […]
The Fear Is Real — But So Is the Calling
Fear Is Real — But So Is the Calling Right now the fear is real in the country. I believe every soul is sacred. No administrative error, no government decree, no border policy can strip that truth away. I am reminded of the story we tell of the early years of Susan B. Anthony, who […]
The Slow Return: Creativity, Vulnerability, and the Fight to Be Seen
The slow return of to who I am has taken years. I’m not new to writing. In fact, I’m not new to speaking, teaching, or sharing spiritual wisdom. But there’s a big difference between sharing what I know and sharing who I am. That’s what writing—true, vulnerable writing—demands of me. I’d be lying if I said […]
Re-frame Your Expectations With Your Mediumship
Embracing the Journey of Mediumship Do you need to re-frame your expectations as you are studying mediumship? Expectations play a powerful role in how we experience mediumship. Whether you’re just beginning or have been practicing for years, it’s easy to set high expectations for yourself and your connection with Spirit. But what happens when things […]
Unlock Your Potential with Weekly Affirmations
Unlock Your Potential with Weekly Affirmations I have been working with weekly affirmations since the creation of this website. Truth be told even longer. I have been sharing them since creating this site. Words have power. The way we speak to ourselves shapes our thoughts, actions, and reality. That’s why I’ve created over 300 affirmations—positive, […]
The Power of Compassion in Mediumship
The Power of Compassion in Mediumship Compassion is the foundation of meaningful mediumship. As a medium, you serve as a bridge between the spirit world and the sitter, but your ability to convey messages with kindness and understanding makes all the difference. True connection isn’t just about delivering accurate information—it’s about holding space for healing, […]
Staying Spiritually Strong in a World on Fire
I’ll be honest: there are days when it feels like the world is on fire, and I’m right in the middle of the blaze. The outrage is everywhere. People are angry, hurt, and divided. And sometimes, I find myself right there with them, feeling that same heat. It’s a natural reaction, isn’t it? We’re watching […]
Lachrymose: Embracing Our Emotions
Lachrymose—given to tears or weeping—is a word that perfectly captures the emotions many of us feel in March. Maybe it’s the shifting seasons, the lingering winter blues, or something unspoken in the air. Whatever the reason, this time of year often brings a sense of tenderness and introspection. Lachrymose first appeared in my word-of-the-day calendar […]
Connecting Authentically with Sitters as a Medium
Today I want to talk about connecting authentically with a sitter. As a medium, the heart of your work is connection. In my development circle, we often discuss how readings become more difficult when you don’t mesh or relate positively with your sitter. It takes more than just setting the intention for the highest and […]