Category: Uncomfortable Conversations
As mediums we often have to have uncomfortable conversations with others. These conversations help not only the person we are having them with, but ourselves.
Preventing Weaponized Incompetence Before It Starts
Preventing Weaponized Incompetence Before It Starts It’s frustrating to deal with weaponized incompetence, but what if you could stop it before it starts? While you can’t control other people’s behavior, you can set clear expectations, establish boundaries, create accountability, and create an environment where this tactic doesn’t thrive. Setting Clear Expectations from the Start One […]
The Cost of Speaking Out and the Strength It Brings
There is a cost to speaking out. I have felt it deeply. When I have taken a stand, people have walked away. Friendships (and family) I thought were solid disappeared, and I found myself questioning whether I had made a mistake. But with time, I realized something profound: if standing by my values makes people […]
Responding to Weaponized Incompetence in the Moment
Responding to Weaponized Incompetence in the Moment It’s frustrating to watch someone dodge responsibility by pretending they don’t know how to complete a task—or doing it so poorly that you’re forced to step in. Weaponized incompetence thrives when left unchecked, but addressing it head-on can feel uncomfortable. If you don’t call it out, the cycle […]
Standing Up for What is Right: A Spiritual Call to Action
What is right isn’t always easy. Lately, I have found myself reflecting on what it truly means to live by the values of love, compassion, and empathy. Christ cared for the poor, the sick, and the vulnerable. Yet, in the world around us, I see a stark contrast to those teachings. There is a deep disconnect […]
Define Success – Your Version Not What Others Say!
Four Steps to Defining Your Own Success I most often speak of mediumship, but some skills translate to other areas of your life. Once you learn to define success on your own terms in one area of your life, it is easy to carry it to other areas. Success is variable. To one person, it […]
Do you need an Attitude Adjustment?
Has someone told you that you need an attitude adjustment? Before you get angry with them, perhaps they may be onto something. They care enough about you to point you in a positive direction. It is human nature to be defensive when someone points out a weakness in ourselves. Trust me, I can relate. Change […]
The negativity surrounds all of us….
This post on negativity was originally posted on August 10, 2016, it seems still important to talk about. I have been seeing a disturbing trend in the people closest to me, in my real estate practice, in the spiritual community, in my local, state and national governments and I am pretty sure globally. In my Mediumship […]
Learning to Recognize When You Need a Spiritual Reset
Honoring Your Energy: Learning to Recognize When You Need a Spiritual Reset I want to talk about how you may need a reset right now. Have you ever felt exhausted, overwhelmed, or simply off without knowing why? When you’re a spiritually connected person, you naturally attract those who need help—and sometimes, their energy can throw […]
Accepting People Where THEY Are At…
The next time you feel the need to judge someone stop for a moment and think about what you are going to say. Sometimes keeping your mouth shut is the best thing you can do.
An Open Letter to the Democratic Party
To the Leaders, Committee Members and Members of the Democratic Party, It is time to face reality. The people who elected you are watching, and many of us are losing faith. We see the Republican Party openly embracing corruption, grifting, and self-interest. But let’s be honest—Democrats are not immune to the same behavior. You claim […]