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Dealing with Skeptics: Staying True to Your Mediumship Path

Skeptics to what you are doing can cause us to hesitate.  Mediumship is a deeply personal and often transformative journey. However, encountering skeptics—whether they are friends, family, or strangers—can be challenging. Here are some strategies to help you stay true to your mediumship path while navigating skepticism with grace and confidence.

Understanding Skepticism

It’s important to recognize that skepticism often stems from a lack of understanding or fear of the unknown. People may be skeptical because they have never experienced what you have or because it challenges their belief system. Approaching skepticism with empathy can help you remain calm and grounded.

Clear Communication

When discussing your mediumship with skeptics, clear and concise communication is key. Explain your experiences and beliefs without getting defensive. Sharing personal stories and examples can make your experiences more relatable.

Example: When someone questions your mediumship abilities, calmly share a specific instance where your skills have made a positive impact, either on yourself or others.

Setting Boundaries

Setting boundaries is crucial to maintaining your emotional and mental well-being. It’s okay to limit conversations about your mediumship with those who are not open to understanding. Protecting your energy allows you to focus on your practice without unnecessary stress.

Example: If a friend continually dismisses your mediumship, politely steer the conversation to other topics you both enjoy, making it clear that you prefer not to discuss this particular subject.

Finding Supportive Communities

Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals can provide the support and encouragement you need. Joining spiritual communities, either online or in-person, can help you feel validated and less isolated in your journey.

Example: Participate in online forums or local spiritual groups where you can share your experiences and learn from others who understand and appreciate your path.

Continuous Learning and Growth

Strengthening your mediumship abilities through continuous learning can boost your confidence. Attend workshops, read books, and practice regularly to enhance your skills and knowledge. The more confident you are in your abilities, the easier it will be to handle skepticism.

Example: Enroll in a mediumship development course or read a book by a respected medium to deepen your understanding and skills.

Practicing Compassion and Patience

Responding to skepticism with compassion and patience can transform potentially negative interactions into opportunities for growth. Remember, not everyone will understand or accept your path, and that’s okay. Stay patient and kind, both to yourself and others.

Example: When faced with skepticism, take a deep breath and respond calmly. Acknowledge their perspective while gently sharing yours.

Embracing Your Journey

Ultimately, your mediumship journey is personal and unique. Embrace it fully, regardless of external opinions. Trust your experiences and the guidance you receive from the spirit world. Staying true to yourself and your path is the most important aspect of your spiritual journey.

Example: Keep a journal of your mediumship experiences and reflections. This can serve as a reminder of your growth and the positive impact your abilities have had.

Dealing with skeptics can be challenging, but it doesn’t have to deter you from your mediumship path. By understanding skepticism, setting boundaries, finding supportive communities, continuing to learn, and practicing compassion, you can stay true to your journey. Remember, your mediumship is a gift, and staying true to yourself is the most powerful way to honor it.

Have you faced skepticism in your mediumship journey? Share your experiences and how you handled them in the comments below!

Rev. Colleen Irwin
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Reverend Colleen Irwin is a Wife, Healer, Psychic Medium, Mentor, Author, and Public Speaker from Rochester, New York, with over 30 years of business experience, including her work as a real estate broker. Colleen’s background in training REALTORS honed her skills in conflict resolution, marketing strategies, and analytical as well as presentation skills, which she now applies to her spiritual education and coaching. Colleen teaches, lectures, and serves Spirit, sharing her lifelong connection with the spiritual world, as captured in her book 'Discovering Your Stream.' She has studied with renowned mediums John White and Lisa Williams and was mentored by Reverend Jack Rudy. Ordained in the Order of Melchizedek by Reverend Dan Chesboro, Colleen is also a PREVIVOR who educates others about the BRCA genetic mutation and taking control of their health. Her mission is to empower women through life’s significant changes—whether it be a career shift, parental care giving, health crises, relationship transformations, or spiritual awakenings. Through spiritual education, inspirational talks, and coaching, Colleen offers guidance and hope, helping women embrace their new purpose.
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