Often I find myself being in a constant state of struggle with control. Either I try too hard to control things or I let go of control and become frustrated and angry because I did so.
Sometimes control is a very important part of our lives. There are times where you must take the control or you will be run over by others. Other times you need to let go of the control so you can have relief from the stress the control causes in the first place.
This is a balancing act of setting boundaries and knowing what is and is not acceptable in one’s life. When you find the balance, it is easier. Not perfect, but easier….