Category: grief

Are you paying attention?

Are you paying attention?

Over the past few months I have been paying attention to what has been happening in this country.   What happened yesterday morning has me completely shaken.   Because at the time that the Terrorist walked into a congregation and shot and killed so many, I too was in church.   Granted a different church …

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How soon can a loved one reach out to you?

How soon can a loved one reach out to you?

This question came up yesterday.   An acquaintance of mine just lost someone very near to them.  It is a loss that just breaks your heart when you hear about it. I mentioned it to another dear friend of mine out west that knows my connection to Spirit.  They wanted to know a concrete timeframe.  If …

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Memorial Day – Remember those that died in service to this country…

Memorial Day – Remember those that died in service to this country…

  As Memorial Day is tomorrow I have been flooded with memories of messages from those that have passed in service to our country.   This past year there have been many.  Remember, I am a Medium, which gives me a unique perceptive on the topic.   Both my mother’s parents served in the Military during World …

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Weekly Affirmation – Understanding the Good of a Situation

Weekly Affirmation – Understanding the Good of a Situation

Each week I find it helpful to use affirmations.   I personally find using the same affirmation for 7 days more effective, so I will share them each Thursday with you. You may ask why Thursday, well it usually is the day of the week that I struggle the most.   I found Sunday’s as a start not working …

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Someone grieving – Here is what not to say

Someone grieving – Here is what not to say

How we talk to someone grieving is a tricky skill.   Even I can say the wrong thing.  Trust me, I have.  I have learned a few things over the years and thought it might be a good thing to share here. You want to offer comfort yet you rip open a wound with a single …

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Interesting Reflection….

Interesting Reflection….

There is no security on the earth, there is only opportunity. – General Douglas MacArthur   September 11th in 2001 the world changed as we knew it.   It changed my world in ways that I cannot believe happened.   I am also happier than I was 15 years ago.   I was working as a Consultant …

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Let’s talk a little about grief…..

Let’s talk a little about grief…..

This is an intense topic.   In my Mediumship I deal with grief on a daily basis.   As a human we deal with it at one level or another.  Personally I am surrounded by people that are in deep grief right now.  There are moments that my own grief from the loss of loved ones hits me.   …

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There is a reason this song is playing in my head tonight…

There is a reason this song is playing in my head tonight…

A friend just lost someone.  We are not very close, but we have a friend in common, we are friends via Social Media.   I know there are no words that will help.   All I can do is send love in her direction. This song keeps looping in my head.   I go to look it up on …

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Serving Others… Quickest way to find joy…

Serving Others… Quickest way to find joy…

Yesterday was pretty amazing day…   A fellow Medium and I went on an adventure together and it filled me with such joy.   We went down to the First Spiritualist Church in Erie.  We had planned on going to Lily Dale the day before, but a little voice in my head said, go to Erie.  So …

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The Devestating Effects of Heroin

The Devestating Effects of Heroin

I sit here after reading He was a Good Boy over at the Buffalo News Blog by Bruce Andriatch. I don’t know him or the family the buried someone last week due to a heroin overdose.      Tears pour down my face.  It is late, and I am tired.  I was drawn to this post from Twitter for a …

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Rev. Colleen Kulikowski